All right Justin are ░░░░░░░░ ready It s time ░░░░░░░░ special edition of Jenna ░░░░░░░░ relationship court we are ░░░░░░░░ by etiquette expert Elaine ░░░░░░░░ And today she is ░░░░░░░░ queen of this court ░░░░░░░░ is Here is how ░░░░░░░░ kworks We will have ░░░░░░░░ with a disagreement each ░░░░░░░░ their side of the ░░░░░░░░ After hearing them both ░░░░░░░░ elaine our queen our ░░░░░░░░ will issue her final ░░░░░░░░ and some words of ░░░░░░░░ which can be helpful ░░░░░░░░ all of us Lee ░░░░░░░░ us about our first ░░░░░░░░ it s the case ░░░░░░░░ the birthday party predicament ░░░░░░░░ and Andrew have worked ░░░░░░░░ two years as ssociate ░░░░░░░░ at a comedy show ░░░░░░░░ love working together and ░░░░░░░░ hang out as friends ░░░░░░░░ of work but when ░░░░░░░░ comes to a recent ░░░░░░░░ gathering they are going ░░░░░░░░ to head all right ░░░░░░░░ workplace drama Parker you ░░░░░░░░ 20 seconds to make ░░░░░░░░ case then Andrew you ░░░░░░░░ 20 seconds to tell ░░░░░░░░ side Parker let s ░░░░░░░░ with you so I ░░░░░░░░ a birthday party recently ░░░░░░░░ decided to invite Andrew ░░░░░░░░ become closer at work ░░░░░░░░ he told another co ░░░░░░░░ about it that I ░░░░░░░░ not invite And it ░░░░░░░░ a little bit awkward ░░░░░░░░ went to Andrew and ░░░░░░░░ said just invite them ░░░░░░░░ more the merrier I ░░░░░░░░ t want to I ░░░░░░░░ in New York My ░░░░░░░░ is small I wanted ░░░░░░░░ to be close friends ░░░░░░░░ right Andrew you have ░░░░░░░░ seconds on the clock ░░░░░░░░ tell me why you ░░░░░░░░ not wrong Go look ░░░░░░░░ was so excited to ░░░░░░░░ invited to parker s ░░░░░░░░ and spend time outside ░░░░░░░░ work I figured mentioning ░░░░░░░░ to our mutual friend ░░░░░░░░ co worker there would ░░░░░░░░ more people to celebrate ░░░░░░░░ She wouldn t have ░░░░░░░░ entertain me and we ░░░░░░░░ spend great time together ░░░░░░░░ I am a more ░░░░░░░░ merrier time of person ░░░░░░░░ wasn t supposed to ░░░░░░░░ awkward this co worker ░░░░░░░░ probably watching this edition ░░░░░░░░ embarrassment parker did Andrew ░░░░░░░░ anybody else at the ░░░░░░░░ or just you just ░░░░░░░░ But he is really ░░░░░░░░ at making friends and ░░░░░░░░ friends are nice oh ░░░░░░░░ on Andrew could you ░░░░░░░░ just asked her before ░░░░░░░░ it I guess I ░░░░░░░░ have If I did ░░░░░░░░ wouldn t be here ░░░░░░░░ you know The more ░░░░░░░░ merrier all right Elaine ░░░░░░░░ think I know how ░░░░░░░░ will rule You surprised ░░░░░░░░ before one of the ░░░░░░░░ I want to think ░░░░░░░░ the more the merrier ░░░░░░░░ is something that when ░░░░░░░░ get folks together them ░░░░░░░░ together Andrew want add ░░░░░░░░ little bit of a ░░░░░░░░ he felt like clearly ░░░░░░░░ were work friends So ░░░░░░░░ certainly understand your point ░░░░░░░░ And parker for you ░░░░░░░░ to have an intimate ░░░░░░░░ and figure out who ░░░░░░░░ in there you actually ░░░░░░░░ to deal with the ░░░░░░░░ at work yourself That ░░░░░░░░ on you That s ░░░░░░░░ you have to figure ░░░░░░░░ What we are looking ░░░░░░░░ is the proper when ░░░░░░░░ comes toe bringing a ░░░░░░░░ one For that I ░░░░░░░░ with parker Andrew you ░░░░░░░░ to keep your mouth ░░░░░░░░ okay laughter now here ░░░░░░░░ the thing Andrew I ░░░░░░░░ you didn t want ░░░░░░░░ be alone but this ░░░░░░░░ not your party Etiquette ░░░░░░░░ dig ctate that you ░░░░░░░░ first before you bring ░░░░░░░░ along thank you so ░░░░░░░░ guys I think it ░░░░░░░░ time for case number ░░░░░░░░ Lee tell us what ░░░░░░░░ ve got it s ░░░░░░░░ case of the decorum ░░░░░░░░ They have been married ░░░░░░░░ years share an apartment ░░░░░░░░ New York City and ░░░░░░░░ living together But when ░░░░░░░░ comes to establishing an ░░░░░░░░ for the space they ░░░░░░░░ t see eye to ░░░░░░░░ all right Each of ░░░░░░░░ have 20 seconds to ░░░░░░░░ your case Ebony 20 ░░░░░░░░ go I just feel ░░░░░░░░ our home should be ░░░░░░░░ and decorative with beautiful ░░░░░░░░ especially for us But ░░░░░░░░ for our guests that ░░░░░░░░ hike to welcome We ░░░░░░░░ t get to host ░░░░░░░░ often I feel like ░░░░░░░░ we do it should ░░░░░░░░ our personality For the ░░░░░░░░ that we pay to ░░░░░░░░ in Manhattan I feel ░░░░░░░░ you should feel proud ░░░░░░░░ your home and should ░░░░░░░░ inviting every day that ░░░░░░░░ are there okay Ebony ░░░░░░░░ case John tell us ░░░░░░░░ your your side my ░░░░░░░░ is I just need ░░░░░░░░ place to sleep eat ░░░░░░░░ TV and shower I ░░░░░░░░ t need all the ░░░░░░░░ nuances and so forth ░░░░░░░░ we never do entertain ░░░░░░░░ we did have plans ░░░░░░░░ you killed them oh ░░░░░░░░ s a plant John ░░░░░░░░ have a follow up ░░░░░░░░ Ebony looks expensive she ░░░░░░░░ didn t you think ░░░░░░░░ decor was going to ░░░░░░░░ so excellent point I ░░░░░░░░ have known better hooks ░░░░░░░░ it could have swayed ░░░░░░░░ court Okay Ebony could ░░░░░░░░ do things for like ░░░░░░░░ you make it decorative ░░░░░░░░ great but try to ░░░░░░░░ it on a budget ░░░░░░░░ or diy stuff for ░░░░░░░░ apartment I absolutely feel ░░░░░░░░ I can go on ░░░░░░░░ and figure out how ░░░░░░░░ put together a beautiful ░░░░░░░░ frame I would willing ░░░░░░░░ compromise I get why ░░░░░░░░ all have a happy ░░░░░░░░ Elaine I get it ░░░░░░░░ am with you When ░░░░░░░░ invite folks over I ░░░░░░░░ the smell everything I ░░░░░░░░ things to be great ░░░░░░░░ you want to welcome ░░░░░░░░ folks into your home ░░░░░░░░ John I hear you ░░░░░░░░ you say you just ░░░░░░░░ to eat sleep lay ░░░░░░░░ head That s not ░░░░░░░░ what life looks like ░░░░░░░░ In this instance we ░░░░░░░░ to think about what ░░░░░░░░ refer to as my ░░░░░░░░ core values of etiquette ░░░░░░░░ honesty and consideration In ░░░░░░░░ particular instance I am ░░░░░░░░ something different Y all ░░░░░░░░ living two separate lives ░░░░░░░░ your head Invite folks ░░░░░░░░ folks don t come ░░░░░░░░ I don t think ░░░░░░░░ you are considering everything ░░░░░░░░ is saying and hearing ░░░░░░░░ You all are at ░░░░░░░░ So for this I ░░░░░░░░ going to side with ░░░░░░░░ what elaine and here ░░░░░░░░ why As far as ░░░░░░░░ is concerned I believe ░░░░░░░░ is something deeper here ░░░░░░░░ wants to lay his ░░░░░░░░ done doesn t want ░░░░░░░░ over and you see ░░░░░░░░ differently You have the ░░░░░░░░ to set the tone ░░░░░░░░ your home You have ░░░░░░░░ have a deeper conversation ░░░░░░░░ him to figure out ░░░░░░░░ does he want it ░░░░░░░░ blank and not fabulous ░░░░░░░░ you are There is ░░░░░░░░ deeper there So I ░░░░░░░░ you to spend time ░░░░░░░░ really come together and ░░░░░░░░ out how to you ░░░░░░░░ make this place represent ░░░░░░░░ both of you yeah ░░░░░░░░ I would say too ░░░░░░░░ she wants to make ░░░░░░░░ home beautiful for y ░░░░░░░░ let her yeah but ░░░░░░░░ have to have a ░░░░░░░░ know I agree beautiful ░░░░░░░░ not her beautiful and ░░░░░░░░ t go on youtube ░░░░░░░░ honey because maybe y ░░░░░░░░ could go to a ░░░░░░░░ market hope that couch ░░░░░░░░