RUSH TRANSCRIPT Key reasons ░░░░░░░░ stay an unhappy relationship ░░░░░░░░ they fail to financially ░░░░░░░░ cold here with advice ░░░░░░░░ empower all when they ░░░░░░░░ it comes to money ░░░░░░░░ welcome they out there ░░░░░░░░ how money works for ░░░░░░░░ can schooler Thank you ░░░░░░░░ much for being here ░░░░░░░░ had a it s ░░░░░░░░ to be here Well ░░░░░░░░ we mentioned off the ░░░░░░░░ this is Themselves and ░░░░░░░░ dangerous relationships but you ░░░░░░░░ some advice that we ░░░░░░░░ all benefit from well ░░░░░░░░ October as domestic violence ░░░░░░░░ month and most women ░░░░░░░░ experience domestic violence also ░░░░░░░░ financial abuse because it ░░░░░░░░ the easiest way for ░░░░░░░░ abuser to take Control ░░░░░░░░ the our victim is ░░░░░░░░ taking control of the ░░░░░░░░ dance And so one ░░░░░░░░ the things that we ░░░░░░░░ to give women some ░░░░░░░░ on how to avoid ░░░░░░░░ relationships And if you ░░░░░░░░ yourself and one of ░░░░░░░░ how to get out ░░░░░░░░ have a plan ahead ░░░░░░░░ time And then it ░░░░░░░░ a lot easier When ░░░░░░░░ find yourself in it ░░░░░░░░ Italy Is being involved ░░░░░░░░ finances which I think ░░░░░░░░ lot of women just ░░░░░░░░ to ignore that stuff ░░░░░░░░ we re so busy ░░░░░░░░ our kids our careers ░░░░░░░░ taking care of the ░░░░░░░░ Partner wants to do ░░░░░░░░ finances that s fine ░░░░░░░░ we women really need ░░░░░░░░ be equal participants Even ░░░░░░░░ we re not the ░░░░░░░░ decision maker we need ░░░░░░░░ be involved We need ░░░░░░░░ know what s going ░░░░░░░░ and we need to ░░░░░░░░ sure our questions are ░░░░░░░░ answered and that our ░░░░░░░░ are big A situation ░░░░░░░░ the bank account has ░░░░░░░░ drained and you had ░░░░░░░░ idea and you don ░░░░░░░░ know what to do ░░░░░░░░ even in healthy relationships ░░░░░░░░ something happens to your ░░░░░░░░ and then you to ░░░░░░░░ over what are you ░░░░░░░░ do Where do you ░░░░░░░░ yeah We all have ░░░░░░░░ have a game plan ░░░░░░░░ and the next is ░░░░░░░░ for a red Should ░░░░░░░░ noticing that might be ░░░░░░░░ of trouble The abuser ░░░░░░░░ deny access to the ░░░░░░░░ or limit information about ░░░░░░░░ my maybe prevent you ░░░░░░░░ working or maybe prevent ░░░░░░░░ from going to school ░░░░░░░░ and improving your educational ░░░░░░░░ Critter sizing your financial ░░░░░░░░ making criticizing your goals ░░░░░░░░ of those things that ░░░░░░░░ you from access to ░░░░░░░░ resources Things are are ░░░░░░░░ and what we find ░░░░░░░░ financially abusive relationship sounds ░░░░░░░░ sad to talk about ░░░░░░░░ know a lot of ░░░░░░░░ can relate Unfortunately a ░░░░░░░░ of people are experiencing ░░░░░░░░ things exactly well one ░░░░░░░░ four women report that ░░░░░░░░ are in an intimate ░░░░░░░░ Them involve financial abuse ░░░░░░░░ your next step is ░░░░░░░░ learning about how money ░░░░░░░░ Kind of just in ░░░░░░░░ world generally mean a ░░░░░░░░ of us woman or ░░░░░░░░ or whatever don t ░░░░░░░░ have a basic understanding ░░░░░░░░ financial literacy right There ░░░░░░░░ a lot of great ░░░░░░░░ out there Going to ░░░░░░░░ accessible and approachable but ░░░░░░░░ the basic yeah and ░░░░░░░░ part of that creating ░░░░░░░░ own financial plan and ░░░░░░░░ what about having a ░░░░░░░░ safety plan Tell me ░░░░░░░░ that idea So for ░░░░░░░░ who are in abusive ░░░░░░░░ First of all if ░░░░░░░░ re safety is at ░░░░░░░░ get out regardless but ░░░░░░░░ you ve got some ░░░░░░░░ to plan stash some ░░░░░░░░ make pictures take pictures ░░░░░░░░ financial documents of the ░░░░░░░░ documents birth certificates marriage ░░░░░░░░ health insurance cards auto ░░░░░░░░ car cars All of ░░░░░░░░ take pictures of the ░░░░░░░░ the large financial assets ░░░░░░░░ sometimes when you leave ░░░░░░░░ situation like that all ░░░░░░░░ ve got is your ░░░░░░░░