REPORTER It may seem ░░░░░░░░ but you say office ░░░░░░░░ party etiquette is very ░░░░░░░░ Why is that MESIDOR ░░░░░░░░ definitely you have to ░░░░░░░░ that while alcohol is ░░░░░░░░ being served and it ░░░░░░░░ a festive atmosphere you ░░░░░░░░ still essentially at work ░░░░░░░░ So our holiday party ░░░░░░░░ at Cheddar Big News ░░░░░░░░ Cheddar is this Friday ░░░░░░░░ s okay and not ░░░░░░░░ to say to your ░░░░░░░░ What s one thing ░░░░░░░░ should never ask at ░░░░░░░░ holiday party MESIDOR Well ░░░░░░░░ any variation of the ░░░░░░░░ Who would you marry ░░░░░░░░ with or kill is ░░░░░░░░ going to earn you ░░░░░░░░ trip to H R ░░░░░░░░ also want to use ░░░░░░░░ golden rule of Don ░░░░░░░░ say anything that would ░░░░░░░░ make you blush in ░░░░░░░░ of people that you ░░░░░░░░ REPORTER That is good ░░░░░░░░ So what do you ░░░░░░░░ want to be at ░░░░░░░░ office holiday party this ░░░░░░░░ MESIDOR Well the first ░░░░░░░░ you don t want ░░░░░░░░ be you don t ░░░░░░░░ to be the drunkest ░░░░░░░░ in the room Try ░░░░░░░░ fight the urge to ░░░░░░░░ advantage of the open ░░░░░░░░ The second thing is ░░░░░░░░ don t want to ░░░░░░░░ the person chasing people ░░░░░░░░ for kisses under the ░░░░░░░░ And lastly you do ░░░░░░░░ want to be known ░░░░░░░░ the office exotic dancer ░░░░░░░░ in your dance moves ░░░░░░░░ in your style of ░░░░░░░░ REPORTER All this is ░░░░░░░░ advice Marjorie but what ░░░░░░░░ you do if you ░░░░░░░░ up the next morning ░░░░░░░░ something that you did ░░░░░░░░ the night before How ░░░░░░░░ you handle awkward situations ░░░░░░░░ the office holiday party ░░░░░░░░ Well definitely you want ░░░░░░░░ take accountability for any ░░░░░░░░ behavior To the extent ░░░░░░░░ you might have said ░░░░░░░░ or done something to ░░░░░░░░ colleague or a supervisor ░░░░░░░░ really want to indicate ░░░░░░░░ them that you regret ░░░░░░░░ behavior and own up ░░░░░░░░ the accountability in that ░░░░░░░░ REPORTER And Marjorie what ░░░░░░░░ you do if you ░░░░░░░░ like a coworker got ░░░░░░░░ of control How would ░░░░░░░░ handle that situation MESIDOR ░░░░░░░░ in this first circumstance ░░░░░░░░ really want to make ░░░░░░░░ that if you are ░░░░░░░░ a moment that you ░░░░░░░░ yourself to a safe ░░░░░░░░ you definitely want to ░░░░░░░░ and let them know ░░░░░░░░ the behavior is not ░░░░░░░░ and you want to ░░░░░░░░ it in some way ░░░░░░░░ it to yourself text ░░░░░░░░ to a family a ░░░░░░░░ or a close family ░░░░░░░░ or a member And ░░░░░░░░ most importantly you want ░░░░░░░░ tell someone You want ░░░░░░░░ speak to your supervisor ░░░░░░░░ R or even contact ░░░░░░░░ attorney to find out ░░░░░░░░ one what your rights ░░░░░░░░ be in terms of ░░░░░░░░ and also you want ░░░░░░░░ let the supervisor or ░░░░░░░░ R know to let ░░░░░░░░ know that you were ░░░░░░░░ in an uncomfortable situation ░░░░░░░░ Great insight Marjorie as ░░░░░░░░ of our holiday parties ░░░░░░░░ around this year We ░░░░░░░░ appreciate you being on ░░░░░░░░ Big News with some ░░░░░░░░ advice and guidance for ░░░░░░░░ lot of people out ░░░░░░░░ Thank you.”